Category: Sex, Love, Relationships
In Search of Something More
“The Happy Room” now represents more to me than a physical space. In moments when I find myself being annoyed by shenanigans at work or triggered by the events going on in this country and the world, I think, “What makes you happy?” In trying to answer that question, I realized that I’ve abandoned so…
The Happy Room
I am starting a podcast! The Happy Room x RealLifeChic.com debuts in March!
Music: Buju Banton + John Legend — Memories
We got mad and took things too far and we’re wanting that old thing back, but now it’s complicated.
Monogamy may be overrated
Is it really human nature to be with one person until you both get old and die? What if what you thought you had you don’t? Are you supposed to try and work it out and hope to make it what you want or chuck the deuces?
Fort Lauderdale 2019
I probably need to pay her a counseling fee for all the times I called her in my feelings about a boy. It would be hella late and I’ve called her with, “I think I love him, but don’t want to, and I shouldn’t. Is that normal?”
Something feels different about this moment in my life…
Sam Smith – How Do You Sleep?
Sam Smith did not come to play with you bishes! Saw this on IG a little bit ago and knew he was gonna snatch some edges! https://www.instagram.com/p/Bzssqs4Ax1-/?utm_source=ig_web_options_share_sheet The announcement? https://www.instagram.com/p/BzvBj2QgFTL/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Well, Mr. Smith did not disappoint. Watched the official video when it popped up on Youtube, and Sam and his dancers are serving poses! Vogue! …
I was listening to Beyonce’s Spirit, and it made me think about this quote: “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.” Spirit sounds like love from the soul. A call to “rise up” and “burn your flame through the night”. It got me…
Music: Lewis Capaldi – Someone You Loved
I’ve been on hiatus for a minute. I’ve written 16 or so pieces, but chose not to post any. I think I just needed to get some things out that I didn’t quite feel like sharing. Plus, it’s been less time consuming to just do quick posts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/reallifechic/). And then this morning, a…
Now, listen here
Ok. So after I wrote my last post, I realize that people actually read my blog! I actually have more than 2 readers! No, really. Thank you to all of you who read, share, like and comment. After I published “Trapped in Commitment” I had a few “You want to tell me something?” messages from…
Trapped in commitment
“There are people who are in situations in life simply because they made a commitment, and they remain out of obligation.” I don’t know if that was the exact quote, but it was along the lines of that. That statement, said during a conversation, had me messed up all week. It stuck with me, and…
Music: Khalid + Normani — Love Lies
I’m listening to a lot of Khalid lately. I’ve been hearing about him for sometime now, but I never bothered to seek out his music. I was listening to Pandora the other day, and one of his songs came up. I was like, who’s that? Since then, I’ve had him on replay and even added…